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Alright. Where Did I Leave Off?

Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

This is what uncles are for

Ah, yes. My cousin Inho was in town, and the cousins got together at his parents’ place. His mom cooked a gourmet feast, and we stuffed ourselves silly. Inho comes to town about once a year, so it’s a big deal. Cadence obviously had fun.

Playing the upright cello

And here she is playing Uncle Inho’s cello–upright bass style. I used to play the cello when I was in high school. It’s something I’d like to do again someday. It’s one of my favorite instruments, right there behind the melodica, banjo and accordian.

Looking tall and skinny

This is probably one of my favorite Cadence outfits. It’s what Ted dressed her in on Friday. Those pants are around 6 inches too long (and probably 6 inches too wide too), and that’s why she looks like a stackabones. Oh, and she actually ASKED me to take a picture of her picking her nose. She is obviously not embarrassed by it, although we’re TRYING to get her to be a bit more private about it.

RAWK

Friday night, Cadence and I went to a get-together at our friends Ryan and Jan’s. Jan just got back from Portland, OR, where she was a Band Manager and counselor for Rock ‘n’ Roll Camp For Girls. We got to see a couple zines the girls had made, as well as photographic and video footage that Jan had taken. All I can say is, I’m definitely sending Cadence when she’s old enough.

Uplifted

Saturday was our friend Mikey’s big Graduation Garden Party. He recently finished Rolfing School in Boulder, CO, and is now back in the Chicago area.

The perfect outfit for badminton

Also gracing us with his presence at Mikey’s party was Jozka in his mighty spiffy suit, all the way from Ann Arbor, MI. He brought the suit at my bequest so that I could have the pleasure of shooting photos like this one.

The perfect outfit for badminton

And this one…

The perfect outfit for badminton

And this one…

Jozka and Leonard

Plus I finally got to meet Leonard up close and in person. No, Leonard is not Jozka’s twin. It’s his mustache. What? You don’t have a name for your mustache?

Thanks, Phil

The prize for furthest travel to be at the party probably goes to Phil, who hitched a Craiglist ride at the last minute from Portland, OR. Yeah, he made that face right when I clicked the shutter. Impeccable timing, as always.

Music

We had some kickass dueling gyile duets by Mikey and his friend Gina, accompanied by various people on the bell.

Music

Even Cadence got to get a little gyil action in. She likes playing her little xylophone at home, so maybe she’ll get into the bigger wooden pentatonic one when she’s older.

So yeah, good times, good times. I was partied out by Sunday and skipped out on yet another party that evening at our friends Nathan & Bryn & Fischer’s. Ted and Cadence went, though and stayed out past her bedtime. Of course, since I wasn’t there, I have no photos to show for it. Well, at least I did some laundry, the dishes and vacuumed Cadence’s room in anticipation of Uncle Erik’s arrival Tuesday night.

My Six Squared Birthday

Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

happy birthday to me

That’s right, folks. It’s my six-squared birthday today. I’m well on my way towards the middle ages now. Let’s just hope with the older will come the wiser.

I have no idea how to catch y’all up on this weekend. Saturday, Sunday and Monday were devoted to friends, food and frolicking. It was more than a birthday girl could ever ask for.

Sarah, Ben and Eleanor

Our friends Sarah, Ben and Eleanor were in town from Grand Rapids this weekend, thereby creating the impetus for much of the fun. Ben is the Ben of Ribbons of Song and Ben and Bruno, two bands that The Tim Lowly Ensemble has played with on numerous occasions. Sarah is one of the coolest moms I know, and Eleanor is about as spunky and creative a kid as 3 year olds get.

Cadence and Eleanor being 3 together

We threw a Panini Party for folks who know Sarah & Ben on Saturday night. Cadence was SO excited about Eleanor coming over. All day Saturday she kept asking when Eleanor would get there. It was probably one of the few times when she couldn’t wait for the sun to go down because that’s when I told her we’d see Eleanor.

Sarah and Cadence

It was a great time just hanging out and eating yummy food (and drinking yummy framboise for me and homebrew for others). Cadence is quite fond of Sarah, and I just love this shot of them reading together.

Sarah and Cadence

Sunday evening, we hung out at a park before grabbing some awesome Thai food. The weather was gorgeous, and it was just perfect for a lazy Sunday late afternoon romp in the park.

Here’s a pictobrowser of the rest of the photos from the evening. It was a total treat to be able to spend two evenings in a row w/ Sarah and Ben and Eleanor.

Hanging with Auntie Kris

On Monday, my cousins came over to hang out. It wasn’t officially a birthday celebration, although it was my cousin Kris’s and my birthdays this week. We did have cake and ice cream, at Cadence’s insistence.

Hanging with Auntie Kris

Another reason for the get-together was that my cousin Ben and his wife Rachel and daughter Eden are moving to New Jersey next week. Baby Eden has been one of my favorite kids to photograph, and I will really miss them. She’s just great in front of the camera, and it’s been a total delight watching her get bigger and bigger.

Looking tired

Cadence missed her nap today, and by the time 6pm rolled around, she was looking pretty beat. Out of desperation, we gave her a piece of chocolate truffle to hopefully keep her awake for just a little bit longer.

Totally. Exhausted.

And this is how I found her 5 minutes after the truffles. Apparently, our plan failed.

Totally. Exhausted.

Other than the total meltdown she had when we tried to wake her from her slumber (we really are stupid sometimes), she has been so sweet to me this weekend, wishing me happy birthday numerous times and telling me she loves me and that I’m her favorite friend. She’s the best birthday present I could ask for.

How to Dismantle Fear

Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

I recently saw this on my beloved inspiration Jen Lemen’s Flickr stream, and it hit me like a timely prophetic word. Dismantle Fear. DISMANTLE. FEAR. Yes, THAT is what I need to do. Take apart my fears one by one, render them powerless in my life. And maybe in doing so gain some hiddens morsels of insight as to who I am and where these fears have grown from and how to transplant courage and hope and trust and joy into those places where fear once had its roots.

reflecting back at me

Obviously, this will be no overnight task. You see, I am a woman of many fears. Spending your most formative years in a fundamentalist cult, being hurt in ways no child should ever be hurt, failing at relationships that you thought would last forever, watching your dad waste away before your very eyes. These are things that tend to plant seeds of fear in a person, seeds that eventually grow into stubborn weeds.

thoughtful clouds

Well, I’ve started my personal process of Dismantling Fear, and I’ve decided to begin with the Fear of Not Being Worthy Of the Company I Keep. The lovely and talented Tracey of Mother May I presented me with the perfect opportunity to do this by inviting me to contribute to a new online community blog of women photographers called Shutter Sisters. When I looked at the list of amazing women who had already joined forces with Tracey, my first reaction was, “There’s no way I’m good enough to be one of them. I’m just a cheesy mommyblogger!” I began my email to decline Tracey’s offer. But then I realized that I have avoided being a part of anything that would potentially push my limits a bit and maybe, just maybe, make me GROW a little. I’ve always been so afraid of not being good enough. And yet, I knew from reading the blogs of these women that while they are intimidatingly talented, they are also kind and supportive and encouraging. So I said Yes to Tracey! And now I’m a Shutter Sister!

I am giddy with the prospects of collaborating with these women and other Shutter Sisters from all over the world, cyber and real. Please check us out! Better yet, join us!

Shutter Sisters Unite!