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Best Shot(s) Monday–Cadence, Cadence and More Cadence

Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

Waiting for Erik

This is Cadence lounging around on the dining room floor Saturday morning. She’s waiting for our friend, her Uncle Erik, to wake up. He got in the night before super late, so she was asleep when he got there, and he was sleeping in Saturday morning in Cadence’s playroom. As soon as she woke up, she wanted to go wake him up, but I made her wait. We went and picked up our vegetables, dropped them off at home, had breakfast at our local coffeehouse, browsed a little thrift store (where she picked up that Pooh bear on the floor for a quarter), and finally came back home close to 11am, at which point she planted herself on the floor outside Erik’s door.

Waiting for Erik

She occasionally got up to do a little dance or just run around, but for the most part she stuck to the floor and would ask every 10 seconds, “Is he awake yet? What’s he doing?”

Waiting for Erik

She finally couldn’t contain her curiosity any longer and started spying on Erik through the crack underneath the door. Then she started saying, “I think he’s awake now! I see his feet moving!”

Cadence ADORES her Uncle Erik, and Ted and I are also very happy to have him with us. For Ted, it’s like a big sleep-over with his best friend, except instead of ghost stories and flashlights and candy and soda, it’s lots of beer and a late-night showing of The Dark Knight.

Dressed in Swallows

So while the boys were at the movies Saturday night, after I put Cadence to sleep, I happened to check the mailbox and found that some fabric I’d ordered from Etsy had come in. I was so excited that I made a dress that very night.

Dressed in Swallows

The fabric is a cotton-linen blend from a Japanese designer, so this was my first time making something for Cadence that wasn’t made out of a t-shirt. It’s actually a lot easier to sew by hand than t-shirt material because it is stiffer than jersey. I loved how the 1/2 yard length was perfect for folding in half and making this dress. I also loved how I could use the edge of the fabric as the hem so that I didn’t have to sew an actual hem myself. I think it’s kinda cool to have the fabric name and that frayed edge as the hem.

FYI, I don’t know how to use a pattern, so that dress was simply made by laying another dress on top of the fabric (which was folded in half) and tracing around the other dress directly onto the fabric. I made the shoulders where the fabric was folded in half, and then I just sewed the sides of the dress (before cutting the fabric)in an A-line shape, cut the armholes and neck, and voila! Dress! When Cadence woke up the next morning, I had her try it on, and adjusted the shoulders a bit by scrunching them a little at the top. I may still do something about the neck and armholes, maybe put an edge on it w/ a blanket stitch or something to keep the fabric from unraveling, or I may just leave it as is. I like things that are rough around the edges anyhow.

You can see more folk’s Best Shots on Tracey’ Mother May I.

Best Shot(s) Monday–Back to the Cadence Channel

Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

Woody Guthrie rocks my world

I feel like I’ve lately neglected my duty to post an adequate amount of photos of Cadence, so it’s a good thing I took a whole bunch of photos of her this weekend. Here she is sporting her new Woody Guthrie dress that I made on the train last week. It just so happens that Woody has been a long-time dead celebrity crush for me, along with the likes of Nick Drake (hopeless, I know) and Dostoevsky.

Doublefisting

Okay, I realize this isn’t a photo of Cadence, but just take my word for it that Cadence was only a couple feet away from where this shot was taken. Besides, I just couldn’t resist posting a photo of Baby Jack double-fisting shakey eggs. Just look at that stance, that grasp, those curly locks!

Synchronized Blur

And this may SEEM like a photo of Rudden, but if you look carefully, you will notice Cadence right behind him, like a little crown upon his head. I just couldn’t resist the synchronicity of this shot. It’s like the kids are performing an intricately choreographed dance of BLUR.

In Giddings Plaza

OK, back to the Cadence Channel. We decided after church yesterday that it would be a good idea to let Cadence run around some more in Giddings Plaza. Since Cafe Selmarie is right there, we lunched on their delectable oatmeal chocolate chip cookies (just two–one for me and one for Cadence; Ted’s on a really party-pooping liver cleanse this week) and fresh squeezed OJ. Talk about a sugar high. At least I got this sweet shot of Cadence. I usually hate photographing in bright sun (and yesterday’s light quality can only be described as blindingly bright sunshine), but I caught this moment when some light was inexplicably shining onto her face, and she actually WAITED for me to press the shutter! She must’ve known she looked good or something.

Look, mama!

While walking back to our car, Cadence happened to spy this sad looking dandelion growing in a sparsely green dirt patch, and I just love how she bent down to smell it, as if it were the most fragrant blossom to ever grace her path. Then she picked it and showed it to me.

Fresh out of wishes

Then she tried to blow the wishes away, but alas, they were all gone already. Oh well. I just love how good Woody looks in this photo…

Wubzy in her eyes

And now I reveal to you my most embarrassing photo technique, just discovered yesterday, and that is the Laptop Reflector. I realized that the glow of the laptop on Cadence’s face as she numbed her mind on some Nick Jr. was quite suitable for photographing her in our dimly lit dining room.

Wubzy in her eyes

Can you just SEE the brain cells taking a flying leap into oblivion? Eh, I still happen to really like the effect.

Wubzy in her eyes

Her face looks much better lit up like this, believe me. And the glow is so subtle, it’s…perfect.

Duck lips

We did get outside before the sun went down, since it was a beautiful day and all. Cadence even got to find some more “flowers” that actually had wishes left on them.

Bouquet of wishes

Since dandelions breed like bunnies in our neighborhood, Cadence was able to gather up armfuls of them.

Wild

I just love how some of our neighbors let their weeds grow wild. Well-kempt lawns are so over-rated. If it weren’t for those cars in the background, you’d think this photo had been taken in the country, or forest preserves, at least. And I bet if I hadn’t said anything about those cars, you wouldn’t have even noticed.

Playing piano in her birthday suit

Back indoors, Cadence had some nekkid time. FYI, I don’t post totally nekkid photos of my kid for the whole universe to see because, believe it or not, I have SOME boundaries. Well, actually, it’s to save folks out there with REAL boundaries the trouble of wasting their time judging me. I see it as an act of charity and not self-censorship.

At least she's wearing a bow in her hair.  That's something.

So you’ll just have to take my word for it that the sight of a totally nekkid Cadence banging on her toy piano while doing Max’s Wild Rumpus dance was quite the visual extravaganza. And I know she’s doing the Wild Rumpus dance because while she’s jumping up and down and hopping from foot to foot while her hands do the same on the piano, she’s yelling, “AND now, let the WILD RUMPUS START!”

Gotta love this kid.

You can see more folk’s Best Shots on Tracey’ Mother May I.

P.S. I have a post up on Shutter Sisters. Check it out to find your chance to win a totally awesome photo book.

My Six Squared Birthday

Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

happy birthday to me

That’s right, folks. It’s my six-squared birthday today. I’m well on my way towards the middle ages now. Let’s just hope with the older will come the wiser.

I have no idea how to catch y’all up on this weekend. Saturday, Sunday and Monday were devoted to friends, food and frolicking. It was more than a birthday girl could ever ask for.

Sarah, Ben and Eleanor

Our friends Sarah, Ben and Eleanor were in town from Grand Rapids this weekend, thereby creating the impetus for much of the fun. Ben is the Ben of Ribbons of Song and Ben and Bruno, two bands that The Tim Lowly Ensemble has played with on numerous occasions. Sarah is one of the coolest moms I know, and Eleanor is about as spunky and creative a kid as 3 year olds get.

Cadence and Eleanor being 3 together

We threw a Panini Party for folks who know Sarah & Ben on Saturday night. Cadence was SO excited about Eleanor coming over. All day Saturday she kept asking when Eleanor would get there. It was probably one of the few times when she couldn’t wait for the sun to go down because that’s when I told her we’d see Eleanor.

Sarah and Cadence

It was a great time just hanging out and eating yummy food (and drinking yummy framboise for me and homebrew for others). Cadence is quite fond of Sarah, and I just love this shot of them reading together.

Sarah and Cadence

Sunday evening, we hung out at a park before grabbing some awesome Thai food. The weather was gorgeous, and it was just perfect for a lazy Sunday late afternoon romp in the park.

Here’s a pictobrowser of the rest of the photos from the evening. It was a total treat to be able to spend two evenings in a row w/ Sarah and Ben and Eleanor.

Hanging with Auntie Kris

On Monday, my cousins came over to hang out. It wasn’t officially a birthday celebration, although it was my cousin Kris’s and my birthdays this week. We did have cake and ice cream, at Cadence’s insistence.

Hanging with Auntie Kris

Another reason for the get-together was that my cousin Ben and his wife Rachel and daughter Eden are moving to New Jersey next week. Baby Eden has been one of my favorite kids to photograph, and I will really miss them. She’s just great in front of the camera, and it’s been a total delight watching her get bigger and bigger.

Looking tired

Cadence missed her nap today, and by the time 6pm rolled around, she was looking pretty beat. Out of desperation, we gave her a piece of chocolate truffle to hopefully keep her awake for just a little bit longer.

Totally. Exhausted.

And this is how I found her 5 minutes after the truffles. Apparently, our plan failed.

Totally. Exhausted.

Other than the total meltdown she had when we tried to wake her from her slumber (we really are stupid sometimes), she has been so sweet to me this weekend, wishing me happy birthday numerous times and telling me she loves me and that I’m her favorite friend. She’s the best birthday present I could ask for.

Best Shot(s) Monday–The Sunday Edition

Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

I know I’ll be way too busy tomorrow to post since I plan on working through lunch, so here are my best shots of the week.

Happy Mother's Day

This one is especially for my good friend Amy (Rudden’s mom), who couldn’t be at church w/ us today. I told Rudden to let me take a few photos of him for Mother’s Day, and this is one of my favorites.

Whatcha reading, Rudden?

I really love this shot of Rudden and Cadence. I know it’s really similar to another shot taken of them in the exact same place, but I still find it irresistible.

Buds

There’s something about this photo too that I just love. I really enjoy observing these two’s friendship. Cadence doesn’t have a lot of friends, and Rudden is definitely the one she’s spent the most time with. They squabble and fight like two siblings would, but I’ve also witnessed some tender moments in which they expressed genuine concern for the other. Seeing Cadence care for and delight in her little friends has been one of the greatest joys of motherhood.

Happy Mother's Day

Speaking of which, it’s been a cold and wet and windy Mother’s Day here in Chicago. We were going to go out to my mom’s in the burbs for dinner, but she’s not feeling well, so we’re opting for Thai delivery and staying in where it’s warm and dry.

Pensive

There’s a lot I could say about motherhood, about the joys, the heartaches, the excitement, the mundane, the hopes, the worries…Mainly, though, I’m full of amazement, even after several years of motherhood under my belt. Watching Cadence emerge as her own little person and being such a big part of her life have been more incredible than I could’ve ever imagined.

Happy Mother’s Day to me and to all the moms out there.

No, I Haven’t Changed Domains Again

Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

I’m still here, folks. I’m just kinda tired. My mind is also a bit preoccupied these days. I’m three-quarters of the way through A People’s History of the United States, and it’s pretty much kicking my social-justice-activist-wannabe conscience to the curb. In a good way.

Ah...sun...

Besides, the sun’s been shining all spring-like, so I had to take advantage. Knowing Chicago, we’ll be back in the 40′s any day now.

Tim Lowly Ensemble

Plus, the Tim Lowly Ensemble FINALLY had their CD release show on Friday night. I missed most of the show as I was watching Cadence in the nursery for most of it.

Cadence dancing

I let her loose in the show towards the end when things started getting a bit more rowdy. She danced like Richard Simmons on speed.

Helena

On Saturday, Ted and I watched our friends Holly and Kyle’s daughter Helena all day, and we also went to Berry’s Seeds of Change Marketplace, which was almost a whole-day affair.

Phil, Ryan and Tim having a jolly good time

There was a ton of music going on all day, and my good friend John Berton did a couple talks on solar energy.

Rudden

Cadence had a blast playing w/ her buddies Rudden and Helena for HOURS. We tried to give them a nap in the nursery, but who were we kidding? We’re just lucky no blood got shed and that all three kids LOVED chili, since that was the only main food being served at the event.

Oh, by the way, I had a post up on Shutter Sisters on Sunday. Go check it out:
Sunday School: Get Your Flare On

All the Small Things

Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

On the hunt

Jen Lemen has a beautiful story and photo to share on Shutter Sisters, and so I thought I’d share a photo and story too.

I took the photo above at church on Easter Sunday. The woman you see sitting is Jan. She is the person who sits in the back of the sanctuary at her little table and hands out Sunday programs to latecomers (a category we fall into 90% of the time). She is there every Sunday, faithfully serving with a warm smile and kind, gentle eyes.

It may seem that what she does in the church is insignificant, but I know that is not true. Folks like her who serve their churches and communities and families in all the small things–quietly, humbly, faithfully–these are the true saints. They are not there for glory or to feed their egos or to score points with God. They see what needs to be done and do it, whether others are watching or not.

This is something I need to remember moment by moment. I live in an environment of seemingly endless self-promotion and a hunger for attention and recognition and grandiosity. I don’t want to get sucked into that mentality, always calculating if doing this good deed or that will get me…get me what??? What is it that I want anyways? Fame? Respect? Envy? A pat on the back? Marketability? I sure hope those are not the things I want in my heart of hearts. This is why I so very much love the Small is Beautiful Manifesto.

I know that if Jesus were to come and throw a banquet at our church, he would personally take Jan by the arm and escort her to the seat next to him at the table. And that is the way it should be.

Love Thursday–Daddy’s Little Girl

Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

Look of love

This one’s from the archives way back in the beginning of January, but I’ve been wanting to use this photo for a Love Thursday, and Karen’s post gave me the perfect opportunity.

Check out Shutter Sisters for some more Love.

Ok. I’m Kinda Done with the Snow. Can We Move On Please?

Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

Big. Ass. Snowflakes

I’m starting to sound like a broken record, but it snowed again last night. Big huge flakes like they were making shaved ice desserts in heaven. That or the elves were pelting us mortals with elvish sized snowballs.

AHHH!

That’s right, Cadence. You tell whoever’s making that snow to just cut it out already! Oh, wait. You’re trying to catch snowflakes in your mouth. Never mind…

AHHH!

Well, what are ya gonna do. Like father, like daughter, I guess.

Seriously, though, I am getting majorly tired of having to wear snow goggles on my walks to and from the train station.

Love Thursday

Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

i love these curls

It’s Love Thursday over at Shutter Sisters, and this is my submission. I absolutely love how Cadence’s hair swirls into delicatle curls during bathtime. Melts my heart every time. See what else folks are loving over here.

I Went to a Kid Party At Chucky Cheese and Lived to Tell About It

Tuesday, December 20th, 2011

The Birthday Girl

Our little friend Caely turned 4 this week, and we partook of the festivities at Chucky Cheese. I admit I was scared to go, but Cadence would never have forgiven me if she knew I kept her home from an opportunity to eat CAKE.

Going for a ride w/ Chucky

When we first got to the party, Cadence was scared of the giant robotic animals on stage, and she begged to go back home. Once those robotic furry creatures started dancing and performing, however, she decided they were harmless, and before the night was over she got pretty chummy with Chucky himself.

Going for a ride w/ Rudden

There were a lot of kids there that we didn’t know, but Cadence’s friends Rudden and Baby Jack and Zane were there, as were my friends, their moms, so it was fun to hang out amidst the chaos of singing robotic stuffed animals, video arcades, rides and a vast array of little toys and prizes.

My Trip to Chucky Cheese

My favorite activity, though, had to be the Sketch Booth. It was kinda like a photobooth, except that Chucky Cheese (a computerized version, and just his hand at that) himself would sketch a picture of you from a snapshot taken in the booth. Amy and I had a hard time getting the kids’ heads in the camera frame, which resulted in this funny series. I think that’s Zane’s hand in the middle photo.

Baby Jack takes over the carousel

The kids are all growing up so fast…Baby Jack was just about to be conceived when Ted and Cadence and I started attending Berry Church where we met these families. Now he’s toddling around everywhere. Cadence wasn’t even walking at the time…I’m just glad she’s got some friends who really feel like family to her, and I look forward to many more birthday parties to come. Even ones at Chucky Cheese.